Okay, random thought. Apart from mugging recently, this thing kept appearing in my mind. Lol, burdened to share with the world. So here I am.
So yeah, I guess all the girls out there wana be slim and beautiful. All wanting to have the hot body like Megan Fox or Jennifer Aniston. I mean, I don’t deny that I want to look like them too. But I guess what makes us beautiful is not how we look. But who we are. And of course, the confidence that we have when we actually embrace our personality – strengths and flaws. I mean, how did we even get here? Thinking that being slim is the way to go. And if your BMI is a lil over 20 (like mine LOL) then you’re not slim enoughhhhhhhhhh. I mean, yeah statically measured, you’re not probably not. But, that doesn’t make you less beautiful wad?!?!?!?!?
I think the most important balance girls have to achieve is not so much about looking slim. Its more about looking proportionate. Or wearing stuffs that will accentuates your figure, or make you look better. There are so many ways to look better, yeah dieting is one of them, wearing better-fit clothes, and of course exercising. But today I’m not gonna focus about the physical methods that will make you look good, because that’s what the magazines have been teaching us since forever.
I don’t know why the sudden urge, but I just want to assure girls out there who aren’t happy with how they look and stuff. Eh, I’m not judging you or labeling you as insecure, because I do fall into devil’s trap too. Like, seriously. When I get really insecure, I need to plan what I’m wearing to school the next day, and the next and the next and the next………………. And I will keep thinking, till I get the ‘best’ combination. And if I’m not satisfied, sometimes it even bothers me so much that I can’t sleep. LOL. Okay this aren’t happening anymore, drop that worried look upon your face.
Maybe it’s a good thing to have 8am lectures, you get so tired that you can’t be bothered to choose what to wear to school anymore. And of course, there’ll be no time for you to put the eyeliner, concealer and stuff because ZOMG ITS 8AM. Okay, I’m getting off track. Haha. What I’m trying to say is that we don’t have to so bothered about how we look and stuff. Whether our BMI is lower than the stick-girl beside us, or whether our tummy is bulging or our hips are too wide. All these are valid concerns, but don’t let this get into your head. Being slim is not the only way of being beautiful. If it is, I believe God wouldn’t create obesity at all. Or, He wouldn’t create fats at all. I mean, He wants all of us to feel beautiful right?!
But He created them and put them in us anyways. Just that some of us has abit more than the others. But don’t let it deprive you from being beautiful. He wants to see you get past the external being, and get right into the heart – who you really are. Okay, unless you’re a serial killer like in Criminal Minds. I believe there’s surely something good about you right? If not, at least a desire to do good?! LOL. Yeah, I seriously believe everyone has that mustard seed desire, at the very least.
If you know that you’re not fat(by the medical standards k, overweight and stuff), then stop telling yourself you are! If the doctors don’t think you’re fat, who cares about what other people think right? Do they even have a cert, which in turn a right, to examine how we look and give us a ‘report’. LIKE SERIOUSLY DON’T LISTEN TO THEM. And if you still think that you’re, don’t commit yourself into unhealthy ways, which will make you look even less beautiful. Exercise, eat healthily, wear the right stuffs! LETS GO (:
If you’re otherwise, it’s okay. It’s not a problem to be a little bigger, I mean for me, I wouldn’t really care what’s your size before I make friends with you. If others do care, then I guess you shouldn’t be mixing too much with them either. If you don’t like the way you look, same thing applies. Exercise, eat healthily, wear the right clothes. I believe that’s gonna make you a hotter babe than you already are. Drop dead Diva is a nice show anyways, its storyline is about how a beautiful size 0 model(Deb) got into a body of a size 14 lawyer(Jane) instead.
Jane had exactly everything that Deb didn’t want. The fats, the bulge on the tummy, the double chin, the pear figure, the overflowing chest that makes her look even bigger. But ultimately, Jane (having Deb’s personality) accepted herself, and saw that being slim is beautiful wasn’t such a beautiful thing after all. The rights that we subconsciously asserts to slim, pretty girls deprives bigger girls of happiness. How beautiful can that be? It’s what we have inside that counts. That really really counts. If you’re Mischa Barton but has an evil heart, I don’t think I’d want to get near you too.
Most importantly, we have to put on the right lenses when we look at ourselves. Don’t magnify the flaws and hide the strengths. (And girls tend to do that, I understand I really do) And seriously, don’t compare to whoever you saw on the streets! God blessed her with good figure. Praise the Lord. But God has blessed you with so other talents as well!
Did I tell you how well you sing? Did I tell you how good you look when you wore that that day? Did I tell you how sweet your smile is? Seriously. We should start giving praises a bit more. Not solely on how good people look. But just a sincere nice comment overflowing from your heart could make anyone’s day. Haha, at least it would make my day la (HINT HINT) Like, it’s a nice top! Hey, that’s a nice jacket. Whatever whatever. Okay I know this are hard for guys to do that.
THEN I TELL YOU WHAT ARE THE THINGS NOT TO DO. SERIOUSLY. AHHAHAHAHA.
NEVER say
eh why you wear until sooooo not nice today.
OMG WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR HAIR?!?! (SERIOUSLY, WHOEVER SAYS THIS DERSEVES A PUNCH)
The color of your top abit funny (AHEM, SOMEBODY SAID THIS TO ME LOL)
Eh, you’re breaking out ah?
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The list goes on. The idea is to, just don’t say anything even if the girl looks damn cui. If you’re concerned, then show your concern together with your comment. (:
Okay this is a really random post. SEE YOU ALL!